Hi guys and happy Sunday to you!! Church was awesome this morning 🙂 My pastor preached from Philippians 4:11 and the title of his sermon was, “I know the Secret.” The secret is to keep walking with Christ no matter what season you are in. Continue to walk by faith and not by sight….I encourage you all to read the book of Philipans. Now lets talk about the topic at hand!
Currently, I am watching the show, “Born Again Virgin,” that comes on the network TV1. When I saw the previews, I said to myself, Hmmm…this should be good. I feel that the show is very refreshing in its content. It’s showing a different side to women. All women are not trying to jump in another man’s bed. Some women are trying to be intentional about staying out of another man’s bed! We don’t see this side of women being shown often on televison, if at all.
The show is about a group of three women who are all at different points in their lives. They live togther as friends and support/respect each other. One particular woman of of the group has decided to be a Born Again Virgin. She has decided that she is no longer going to have sex with another man unti she is married. Let’s just say she was looking for a change.
I like how the show shows the real struggles of a woman who has made this decision and the various challenges she goes through. The last episode discussed a woman’s boundaries in her Born Again world. How far should she go? How far is too far? This really interested me because I feel that all of us who have made this decision have asked ourselves the golden question….What are my boundaries?
Now, we must understand that Christ will get His own set of convictions for our relationships. Some couples may say they don’t kiss. Others may say we kiss but we dont stay at each other houses past 8PM; each conviction is different. But trust and believe, we all need boundaries. We must also understand that the more we think we can kiss, touch, spend the night and do whatever else, we are simply playing with fire. Don’t let satan fool you into dibbling an dabbling into a little bit of this and a little bit of that…..humph! Again, we are playing with fire.
I plan to keep following the show to see where it will go. I would love for you all to put your comments below on some good practices and boundaries on not having sex with your boyfriend until marriage. Also, if you have watched show, tell me what you think? Is it realistic? Or not?
Jesus is Love,
Chelsea